Thirty-three years ago, Taya Lee was left as an
infant by her birth mother on the doorstep of St. Edwards Catholic
Church in Shelton, Washington. According to an anonymous letter sent to
the Shelton Police Department two weeks later, the girl’s mother was
only 16-years-old. "I know she was 16, she had no job, [was] leaving
town, and wanted a better life for me," Lee told ABC News.
Recently, Taya put out a call on Facebook, searching for her birth
mother. She posted a photo of herself holding a sign with a handwritten
message: “Looking for my birth mother. She abandoned me in Shelton, WA
on Jan. 25th 1981. I was found on a church doorstep at St. Edwards
Catholic Church. Please help me find her by sharing my picture.”
She hasn’t found her birth mother yet, but she was thrilled to meet
someone that she calls her “first friend.”
Taya’s “first friend” is 47-year-old Stephen Henry who was 14 at the
time when he was walking near the St. Edwards Catholic Church on his way
to school when he heard an unsuspected sound. "I could hear it, a baby
crying in the distance," Henry, 47, told ABC News Seattle Affiliate,
KOMO News. Following the sound, "I went and found a baby covered up in a
basket. I knew I needed to do something about it." And he did. He walked
across the street and told an adult at Mason County Courthouse about the
baby. That was the last time he saw or heard of that abandoned baby
until earlier this month.
Another Facebook user began investigating to try to help Taya. She found
an article about St. Edwards Catholic Church being torn down in 2009,
and it came with a comment by Henry that said, "I found a little baby on
the doorstep one morning on my way to school!" When Taya learned about
it, she immediately sent a Facebook friend request to Henry and
followed up with a blunt email: "I think you found me on the doorstep."
And he responded, "Yep, I think that was me."
Taya and Henry met outside his Shelton office on Tuesday, for the first
time since he found infant Taya 33 years ago.
Lee has received some scrutiny for using the word "abandoned" on her
original Facebook post. Some commenters say that her birth mom will
never come forward because she chose to use a "negative" word. Taya
responds: “I hope my birth mom can see past that. I know that she did it
in a loving way, leaving me at a church, that obviously good people
would find me, and … I know that deep down in my heart… I just want her
to know, ‘It's okay, I would love to meet you, I would love to learn
about you and your family and your life. I respect you for what you did.
I hope that you don't carry any guilt.’”
You and I were created “in the image of God” (Genesis 1:26-27).
In that sense, we are His offspring (cf. Acts 17:26-29).
However, because of choices WE have made, our sins have separated us
from God (Isaiah 59:1-2) and left us in dire and deadly
circumstances.
We may feel abandoned by God, but nothing could be further from the
Truth....
God loves us so much that He sent His Son to live among men and then to
die on the cross for the sins of the world (John 3:16; 1 John 2:2).
Through His death on the cross, Jesus paid the price for our redemption
so that we might be reconciled to God (Ephesians 1:7; 2 Corinthians
5:17-21).
God will save and give the GIFT of eternal life to those who will
place their
faith and trust in Jesus (Acts
16:30-31),
turn from sin in
repentance
(Acts 17:30-31),
confess
Jesus before men (Romans 10:9-10), and be
baptized
(immersed) into Christ for the forgiveness of sins (Acts 2:38). The
blood of Jesus will continue to cleanse those who continue to walk in
the light of His Word (1 John 1:7).
Abandoned in our sins? NO! Separated from God? YES.
But God is searching for us. Jesus is the “First Friend” who wants to
save us and give us an eternal home.
Won’t
YOU
accept His offer on His terms?